Help! My toddler won't sit in the stroller

We’ve all been there. You’re craving some fresh air with your toddler, but they’re resisting the pushchair so hard it feels like a prison break. Kicking and screaming or going limp in silent protest, it’s a struggle. But don’t worry! Here are 5 hacks to keep baby’s buns in the seat and your sanity intact. 

The day has come when your angelic, chubby mini-me has decided they, like many a disgruntled Uber driver, will no longer be accepting rides from you. No need to dwell on this development. We’ve got your back with these 5 simple tips for a smoother journey.

1. Personalise the stroller

Transforming his wheels into his own personal playground is a great start. How? Every ride is better with a buddy, so let them choose a soft toy, doll, or action figure that’s always along for the ride. The same can be done with a particular throw: calling it their “adventure blanket” signals that they’re about to experience something special. And of course, since everything is better with snacks, you can always select an extra fun one that’s only allowed while on the go.

2. Pack a little fun for the road

It’s not uncommon for you to feel bored during your morning train commute right? Well, your toddler can feel the same way sometimes. That’s why always bringing a a small yet convenient bag filled with entertainment choices is never a bad idea. Books that can take a beating (or chewing!), larger fidget toys (anything that twists, spins or squishes) and stickers with a notebook can buy you many blissful minutes to enjoy the sounds and sights of nature.

3. Take them on a tour

Go on, give them your best David Attenborough impression. “Look at that beautiful, big dog!” “Check out that red car—can you find a blue one now?” “Tell me when you’ve spotted three tabby cats.” This turns the trip into an interactive game, creating “missions” that keep their brains stimulated while still seated. It also has the added benefit of engaging their language centre, helping them with pattern recognition and other key functions.

4. Let them know it’s not forever

Sometimes your toddler doesn’t want to get in or stay in the pushchair because they’re convinced they’ll need to be still for all eternity. You can combat this by including some small “timeouts”. If you have the energy and are somewhere safe, try a small race (“ready, set, now run to that tree!”) before putting them back in the seat. Or let them push the empty pushchair for a minute so they can show you how strong they are. These tiny moments of freedom can make all the difference.

5. Be kind to yourself

Honestly? This belongs on every list when dealing with a toddler. We love them, but boy, can they test us! In fact, at this stage in their development, you could say that’s almost their job. Some days, nothing works. The tantrum doesn’t end. The wriggling never stops. On those days, it’s perfectly okay to cut the walk short, or even hand over your phone for 2 episodes of Bluey. There is no gold medal for parenting, and sometimes, it’s just about getting everybody home in one piece.

Feeling more confident about your next ride? Excellent. We’ll be sure to wave when we see you!